My God this has been a bad week for me.It all started tuesday morning.When animal control came to my house.Because someone went to the town council meeting complaining about stray cats and people that have more than 2 cat and i have/had 7 cats. 3 of them are 6 months old and were trying to find homes for them but we haven't had much luck.So anyway AC comes and tells me i have til Friday to get rid of 5 of these cats .Or they would be impounded and destroyedf.( city ordianace 2 cats per house hold) OK so i found a place called PAL.They are a no kill shelter for dogs and cats and now they are helping me get homes for my cats.OK so i got my brother too take 2 of the cats which leaves me and PAL with 3 to find home's for and this is were it gets bad for me.Louanne comes home from work last night and tells me she's moving out and that she just cant take it any more. So last night she stayed here and packed her stuff and she just left not even 20 minute's ago.And she took one cat so thats cool now i only have 2 to find homes for which is great but dam.I just feel like im in a daze oh yeah and my mother went in the Hospital tuesday also.They dont know whats wrong with her but she had just got out of the hospital 2 weeks ago.So that has my worried then the cats and then Louanne moves out after 6 years of living together..Im just really down atm.It just seems like once something bad happens it just gets worse and worse.
Thanks guy's.You guy's are great.This has been a really rough week for sure.Tensions were unbelievable in my house this past week.Me and Louanne were fighting all the time and my mother was getting sicker and sicker then the thing with the cats. And to top it all off my new Dog Dink ripped my coushin's on my love seat to shred's i just couldnt believe it. Its like i dont know were to turn.I have all this frustration and no way to vent it..
And Phil I know how you feel so atleast your not alone in it.Im sitting here feeling probably about as bad as you do.Wemen .I just cannt figure them out. Like Last night we were fine no fighting and talking normal but i knew she was leaving and she kept crying and of course i held mine back which wasnt easy..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.. Well anyway maybe its all for the best i dont know
But anyway thanks for your support guy's
edit: Mom just called i have pick her up from the hospital soon
Sorry to hear all the unfortunates happening all in one week. Best wishes and I hope all is well real soon.
I take it that you and your girl are not married and that you were a couple living together...... if this is the case.... all will be well in time... if it were not meant to be then it was not. it is best now and not if you were married (too much legal stuff). You will run across your true one when you least expect it.
As far as the amount of cats allowed..... well.... if you can find out who turned you in to Animal Control and put you this crap about your cats...... I say get a large bottle of Round-up (weed&grass killer) and pour it all over in their lawn and bushes.... or put a pile of your feline number 2 on their front door steps.
Your mother.... on top of it all.... no matter what... she is the most important person in your life. The rest can take a back seat behind your mother. Take care of her and be beside her. Let her know that you are there for her. She is the only mother you have. I hope she will be better and I'll give a prayer for her speedy recovery.
This is about you and not about me, but let me share something, which may or may not make you feel better. As the saying goes, "misery loves company." About 12 years ago, my wife gave birth to my first child, a daughter. She died the next day. Inside of two days more, I was shopping for a casket and a burial plot. All my life, I had worked hard and looked forward to the day I would become a father. That was pretty much what I wanted to do since I was about 8 years old. The day after my daughter died, my company left me a voicemail at home. There was a restructuring and I had been laid off, effective the day before my daughter was born. So, the birth, the surgery, the emergency room... those were my bills now. Oh. The day before I buried my daughter, my dog ran across the street and a car came along. So, now it included my pet as well. On the way back from the cemetry, I got a flat tire. I'm not kidding. Of course, it was raining. I don't know if you are a spiritual person, but sometimes it pays to seek solace and shelter from a higher being.
Not to be bad tempered or anything, but why would you seek solace from a higher being? If he/she/it existed didn't they contribute to your tribulations? Meditation, understanding and acceptance of what happens to us is necessary, but it may not be necessary for us to call on a "higher" power, but for us to dig down and call upon our own inner strength to resolve our issues.
I've called on God, but got voicemail.....
Ad Astra Per Aspera
(A rough road leads to the Stars)
We all know what we know, and everyone else knows we are wrong.
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